"Now we can help other girls."
Charina* is one of the first young women to stand and walk to the front
of the room to sign her name to the bill of rights. She is proud of the
declarations she and the other girls have written together:
I
have the right to be loved. I have the right to live peacefully. I have
the right to my own body. I have the right to express my feelings.
Charina, 20, is participating in a meeting with the
Reintegration Support Network, a support group for trafficking
survivors. The network is an innovative partnership between IJM Cebu and
the local government. Government social workers, staff from IJM
and volunteers from the community provide medical and
psychosocial support. The young women received trauma-focused care in
aftercare shelters, and they have now returned to their home
communities. The support network offers them a chance to keep learning
about topics that promote psychosocial well-being and healthy living.
Charina was one of two girls rescued in IJM’s first undercover operation in
2007. IJM investigators had been building a case against the pimp, who
was notorious for selling young girls to men for sex. Charina was only
15 years old, but she looked even younger. The pimp exploited her
youthful looks, selling her for sex to the men who were willing to pay a
higher price for younger girls to abuse.
Charina was all too familiar with the routine on the streets. Pimps sold
the younger girls and women; prostitutes stood on corners of the street
or waited by the pier for customers to drive by to negotiate a price.
So Charina thought it was just another night when a pimp told her that
she would go to a hotel along with a couple other girls for a private
party.
But it was not just another night: The men negotiating with the pimp
were undercover police. They were not interested in abusing Charina;
they were there to free her.
At first Charina was confused. IJM aftercare staff was on the scene to
accompany Charina and the other girls and women to the police station.
The IJM social workers explained what was happening and reassured the
girls that they were not in trouble. Charina and two of the girls were
taken to an aftercare shelter, where they received crisis care and
counseling.
But after years of trauma and learning to survive on her own, building trust was extremely difficult.
After her father died when she was a young girl, Charina had been sent
to live with her grandmother. Aside from the abusive and angry visits
from Charina’s mother, the home was warm and loving – but very poor.
Although Charina’s grandmother sold small rice cakes, a popular Filipino
snack food, there was never enough.
After completing fourth grade, Charina dropped out of school. Eager for
acceptance and desperate for an escape from the hardship that had
defined her young life, Charina started hanging out with a rough crowd.
These new friends introduced her to drugs, and before long her
own mother decided it was time for Charina to start earning some money.
Charina was 13 years old when she was first sold for sex. Two years
later, she became pregnant and endured a painful miscarriage.
When she was rescued, Charina was three months pregnant, struggling with drug addiction and very hesitant to receive support from IJM social workers. She saw the
rules of the aftercare shelter as a threat to the independence she had
been forced to learn at such a young age. She resisted the counselors
and attempted to run away.
Despite Charina’s initial resistance, IJM staff remained determined to
connect Charina with the resources and services she needed. “We knew we
did not want to give up,” says IJM Director of Aftercare Mae Sampani.
IJM was able to place Charina in a detox center, where she received the
help she needed to overcome drug addiction. During that time, the team
faithfully visited her. They began to see Charina transform. Charina
started to believe that someone actually cared for her.
Charina endured many challenges during that time. She had to move to
several different aftercare homes. After a fire burned one of the
shelters to the ground, Charina moved back to her home community. It was
earlier than ideal, but her IJM social worker walked closely with
her during the ordeal. After many months of consistent support, Charina
started to trust. She overcame her substance abuse and started to
rebuild relationships. Charina started to hope.
IJM seeks to provide holistic restoration for trafficking survivors.
Social workers help the young women heal by offering practical
resources and providing trauma-focused counseling. But there is not one
treatment or time line that works for everyone. The social workers make a
long-term commitment to each survivor who participates in IJM’s
aftercare program, committing to walk the difficult road together.
The men who tried to sell Charina in 2007 were charged under the Philippines’ anti-trafficking law. The
trial progressed slowly, illustrating the delays and obstacles
that have been endemic to the system—but are slowly starting to change.
IJM lawyers have supported the case, persevering through numerous
postponed or canceled hearings.
Charina courageously chose to testify in court against the suspects. She
is eager to see justice in her case because she knows she is worth
it.
The trial finally ended in June 2014 with convictions against the traffickers.
Today, Charina is a strong young mother, determined to give her son the
opportunities she should have had herself. With help from her
counselors, Charina is making plans to return to school or receive
specific vocational training. Charina says she will give anything in her
power to protect her son.
At a Reintegration Support Network meeting, Charina stood before the
group of other trafficking survivors and counselors. She described how
much her life has changed since her rescue. “I am happy and thankful for
the positive changes in my life,” she said confidently. “If I was not
rescued, I would still be standing over there,” she said, pointing in
the direction of the pier where she had once been routinely sold and
exploited. Charina described how she has learned to respect others and
respect herself. She looked around the room of fellow survivors
and said, “Now we can help other girls.”
*Survivors' names are changed for their protection.
The content of this blog post was provided by the Dressember Foundation.
